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Special Olympics: Be Thankful for What You Have & What You Can Do

Apr 25, 2013 10:47 AM
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By Alyse Redden '16 - '16

Special Olympics

Today, the freshmen class hosted the Special Olympics. Basically, we were put in charge of certain events or tasks, but our main goal was to smile and clap for participants. This was to encourage them and to give them tons of attention for them to feel special. It was great to see their reactions when I hugged them, pinned ribbons on them, high-fived them, cheered them on, or clapped and smiled at them. They were full of a joy just like any normal person would be. The experience I had today was very eye opening. 

The things I did may have influenced these precious little kids, but I truly believe that they had a bigger influence on me. I have always taken an interest in people with special needs and helping them really makes my heart smile. It is great when you know that you and what you are doing is the reason for someone’s joyful and carefree attitude.

In life, I think we get caught up in the little things and we often take what we have for granted. These kids would give anything to be able to talk, to see, to walk without assistance, and to be able to act just like us, but they can’t. And really, that is the only difference that separates them from us.

Today inspired me to live life in the moment, instead of worrying about tomorrow. I learned today that I should be very thankful for what I have and the things that I can do. Honestly, I couldn’t do what they do. I would not have the perseverance or determination to make it through everyday life, especially with a smile that I saw on so many of their faces. All these children want is to be loved and to be normal. So the least I could do was give them that respect and grant them that wish. I guess both myself and the Special Olympians gained from this amazing experience.

At Darlington, we really stress the importance of Service Beyond Self. I believe that the Special Olympics enabled many people to grasp what this concept truly means. Service Beyond Self is stepping out of your comfort zone and putting others before you. Many people may struggle in doing this, but I find delight in it. When I was little, my response to “What do you want to do when you get older?” was “I want to make others smile.” I have always loved to use my big heart for the wellness of others.

Every day, we get to run around, walk by ourselves, have conversations, and even see what is going on around us so it was great to help host an event where these special needs people could experience that. I believe that we all needed a day that we could really do some self-examining, and today definitely kick-started this process. 

“Normal,” the word can’t be defined.
The way we were made is perfect, there’s no in between the lines.
Although we may differ, what we desire is the same.
We want to be loved and treated well,
But not called by our physical characterization or name.
We all face different battles that are equally hard.
Keep in mind that everyone is reaching for the stars.
If they can’t reach it, grab it and lend a helping hand.
Everyone deserves compassion so come on and take a stand.
Some one may find success in things as simple as
Talking, seeing, waving, or even standing on their feet.
Take a minute before you judge them, be the love they need.